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For over 20 years, Vielka Kano, a Licensed Psychologist in Costa Rica and Counselor in Texas, has specialized in relationships and sexuality helping individuals and couples enhance their intimate lives. As an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, she adheres to high ethical standards and respects diverse cultural and religious values. Vielka’s successful work combines scientific knowledge with traditional practices like Tantra and Taoism, fostering deeper connections and enriching experiences. She has been featured in Women’s Health, on Telemundo, and the TV show ’90 Day Fiancé.
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Low libido or Differences in Desire
Yes. Frequent arguments often indicate deeper issues. Therapy provides tools to understand and resolve these conflicts.
Erectile Dysfunction (ED)
It’s common for one partner to be more ready than the other. Starting therapy can still be beneficial and may encourage your partner to engage.
Painful Intercourse
Every therapeutic experience is different. Our approach focuses on practical strategies tailored to your unique situation.
Premature Ejaculation (PE)
Mental health challenges like anxiety or depression can impact communication and intimacy. Addressing these issues individually and as a couple can strengthen your relationship.
Communication issues
Techniques like active listening, using “I” statements, and setting aside dedicated time for discussions can enhance understanding and connection. Emotional regulation is key for using communication tools.
Exploring Open Relationships
Recognizing each other’s communication preferences helps in adapting and responding effectively, fostering a more harmonious relationship.
Repair After an affair
Couples therapy involves working with a trained therapist to address relationship challenges, improve communication, and strengthen your bond.
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Couples therapy involves working with a trained therapist to address relationship challenges, improve communication, and strengthen your bond.
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Couples therapy involves working with a trained therapist to address relationship challenges, improve communication, and strengthen your bond.