In-Person Sex Therapy in Austin, Texas

Online in Dallas, San Antonio, Houston, and Across Texas

Overcome your bedroom struggles and make sex fun again.

Do you have a different levels of desire than
your partner?

When one is ok having sex once a year while the other
wants it everyday, it creates problems.

Sex should be an adventure you look forward to, not a task you dread. Maybe you felt desire at the beginning or never experienced the kind of intimacy everyone talks about. You wish the story would be… “ we can’t keep your hands off each other.”

But instead, it feels more like a chore — something you avoid or push to the bottom of the list. You still love each other, but you’d rather sit and relax on your phone than make an effort, especially when you’re not sure it will work and end up frustrated.

You’ve tried to make things better, but nothing seems to work. And you wonder, Is this it? Is this what our sex life has come to?

It’s time to get professional help.

The Good News:

It doesn’t have to stay this way. You can reignite the spark, rediscover passion, and feel that deep connection again. With a clear, proven process that works, I can help guide you there—just like I’ve helped countless others transform their intimacy and relationships.

No judgment, no shame—just a path to rediscovering the passion and joy you’ve been missing. I’ve been there and know exactly what it takes to break the cycle and bring the excitement back. Let’s work together to get your intimacy back on track and create the relationship of your dreams.

Wondering how to get in the mood?
I’ll help you learn what works and boost your desire.

Are sexual struggles affecting you… even outside of the bedroom

Bedroom struggles can shake your confidence and strain your relationship. But great sex? It’s the glue that keeps couples happier and closer. Extra bonus: better self steem.

You see it on TV—passion, connection, pure presence. Deep down, you want that too. But when it’s your turn, something feels off.

Instead of excitement, there’s tension. Instead of pleasure, you feel awkward and in your head. Your body tenses, your mind spirals, and what is suppose to be a good time now feels terrible.

Your body and heart are craving something deeper. More freedom. More play. More intimacy that feels natural and alive.

You don’t have to stay stuck. The connection you dream of is closer than you think. It’s time to start living—fully, freely, and with lots of fun.

Ready to get out of your head and hop into bed?

Common concerns I treat are

Hi. I’m Vielka. A Certified Sex Therapist who knows what you’re going through.

At the beginning, everything was great—including sex. It was fun, spontaneous, and there was a lot of it. But after a couple of years, something changed. I didn’t want to have sex anymore. I grew up in Costa Rica, a catholic country and I had no idea how to fix it.

I started doing it just for my partner, but honestly, it felt like I was doing him a favor. Saying “no” didn’t make him happy, and saying “yes” didn’t make me happy. Sex was no longer enjoyable, and our emotional intimacy began to suffer.

I felt terrible as a partner. I lost desire and didn’t know how to bring it back. It didn’t matter how many toys or lingerie I would buy. Nothing worked. I felt like giving up.

Then I learned that losing desire happens to a lot of couples. This made me feel better, but the problem was still there—and I had no idea how to fix it.

I reached a point where I thought, “I’m okay never having sex again.” Yes, it got that bad. Deep down, I craved the connection, excitement, and aliveness that sex brings, but I had no idea how to make that happen.

But I didn’t give up and I embarked on a journey that led me to become a Certified Sex Therapist through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT).

I discovered the tools I needed, and my intimacy became absolutely AMAZING! Now I know how to create mind-blowing orgasms and keep desire alive over time. I’m passionate about sharing what I’ve learned and helping others transform their sexuality through self-love and healing.

Yes! I want more pleasure and connection!

What can we address in sex therapy?

Low Libido or Differences in Desire

Whether you’re not in the mood and feeling like something’s wrong with you, or one of you wants sex more than the other, the result is the same—tension, guilt, and growing distance. One partner feels hurt and rejected, while the other feels overwhelmed and lost. Imagine reconnecting, feeling confident, and enjoying intimacy that works for both of you. I’ll help you tackle what’s holding you back and find a balance, so intimacy feels good again—without the pressure or resentment

Painful Intercourse- Dyspaurenia and Vaginismus

Sex shouldn’t hurt, but for many, it does—leaving you dreading intimacy and feeling disconnected. Whether it’s caused by a medical issue, fear or anxiety, or not knowing how to communicate your needs, it’s frustrating and isolating. Let’s work together to uncover the cause, ease the pain, and make intimacy enjoyable again.

Difficulty Reaching Orgasm

You’re trying, but it’s just not happening—and it’s leaving you feeling frustrated, confused, or even broken. It can make intimacy feel like work instead of pleasure, and sometimes, you just want to avoid it altogether. Let’s learn tips to be in your body and let go, so you can fully enjoy sex and experience amazing initmacy.

Repair After an affair

Infidelity is deeply painful, shaking your relationship and your self-esteem. It’s tough and heart breaking but you’re not alone—many couples face this at some point. I help you repair the damage, rebuild trust, and create new agreements that work for both of you. With the right support, many couples say, “We feel stronger and more connected than ever after working with you in therapy.”

Don’t give up!

I have a process that works!

Couples leave feeling so connected and full of desire.

Erectile Dysfunction (ED)

When things don’t work the way you want, it’s frustrating, embarrassing, and leaves you dreading intimacy. You worry about disappointing your partner, and your confidence takes a hit. Let’s tackle the problem together, so you can feel secure, connected, and enjoy intimacy again.

Premature Ejaculation (PE)

The show is over when the fun was just starting, leaving you embarrassed and worried about satisfying your partner. They might feel frustrated, and you feel like you’re letting them down. Together, we’ll help you take control, so you can last longer, feel confident, and ensure your partner is satisfy and craves for more.

Performance Anxiety or Insecurity

You’re stuck in your head—worried about how you look, if you’re doing it “right,” or whether your partner is satisfied. Instead of enjoying the moment, it feels like pressure to perform, and you can’t relax. Let’s break free from the anxiety, so you can feel confident and fully enjoy intimacy.

Exploring Open Relationships

You’re curious about opening up your relationship—or maybe you’ve already started, but it’s been a bumpy road. Navigating boundaries, managing emotions, and aligning expectations can feel overwhelming. Let’s work together to bring clarity, build trust, and create a path that feels secure and fulfilling for both of you.

Client Testimonials

Some love words from clients

“We went to therapy for years and felt unsupported and misunderstood regarding our sexual concerns. Then we found Vielka, and it was a turning point. We felt truly heard and supported, with no judgment or shame. Her expertise in sexuality and her kind approach made all the difference.”

Vielca helped me tremendously in dating women. She helped me overcome some limiting thoughts and beliefs I had about myself and my sexuality. Vielca educated me on how to have conversations about sex, create a safe and non-threatening space, and build trust. Now I feel ready to satisfy my desires and satisfy my partner as well!

“From our first session, I felt Vielca was genuinely interested in getting to know me and helping me. As I was going through a tough time, it was reassuring to know I’d always have a space to share what I was going through, knowing I get nonjudgmental support and encouragement. I’m grateful for the questions she asked me and the perspectives she shared with me. As a result of Vielca’s shared wisdom, I’ve gotten better at identifying more options for myself, considering and addressing my own needs and I feel like I’m on the path to trusting myself more.”

I’m kink-friendly and also come from a conservative background.

My clients feel no judgment at all

and sessions are confidential.

3 steps to get started

Step 1

Schedule a free consult

Get your questions answered and learned how you will be helped in this 15 min consultation.

Step 2

Begin sessions

Scheduled a full 50 min session where you will learn tools and have exercises to practice at home to grow quick and steady.

Step 3

Individualized plan

We will create a unique strategy that works for your specific needs and addresses the challenges you need support with.

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