Sex Therapy for Women in Austin, Texas
Therapist for intimacy issues online and in Dallas, Houston and San Antonio.
Sex should be fun, exciting, and a source of joy and connection.
For many women, the bedroom becomes a place of
frustration, confusion, and feeling pressured.
It's not supposed to be this way!
Do you feel like the issues in bed are because of you?
Guilt, shame, confusion, and not knowing what to do? Yeah, it’s tough, and I get it because I have been there.
Intimacy used to feel exciting, but now it’s something you no longer look forward to—or maybe you’ve never truly experienced the connection others talk about. You want to feel close to your partner, but low libido, pain during intimacy, or the changes that come with aging have made it feel impossible. Or perhaps you’ve always struggled to reach climax and find yourself wondering if something is wrong with you.
Your days are packed with work, responsibilities, and an endless to-do list. By the time you crawl into bed, intimacy feels like just another task.
You love your partner, but scrolling through your phone or simply resting feels much easier. And let’s face it, you’re exhausted. The thought of facing another night of frustration or even fights? Ugh, no thanks. Deep down, you’re not excited about it. You can’t help but wonder, Am I broken? Will my partner ever be happy like this?
Sadly, this is the reality for so many women, but you don’t have to settle for it. With Sex Therapy for Women, you’ll learn the tools to overcome these challenges and rediscover intimacy in a way that feels just right for you. You’ll find yourself craving it again and again. It’s time to reclaim your pleasure and confidence—you deserve it.
I will help you feel that spark again—the butterflies, the playfulness, and the excitement without fear holding you back.
My doctor told me that everything was ok. Now what?
My holistic approach examines your history, your desires, your challenges and most importantly, what your heart craves. I will help you see intimacy in a whole new way. The way that bring you joy!
Common areas I treat
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Difficulty Discussing Sexual Needs
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Pain During Sex
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Low Sexual Desire
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Avoiding Sex
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Sex Feels Like a Chore
I will help you feel that spark again—the butterflies, the playful ness, and the excitement without fear holding you back.
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Low Libido
Having a low libido is more common in women than you may think. You’re juggling work responsibilites, caring for your kids, managing house chores, and still trying to find the time just to relax. When you do finally have a free moment to yourself, sex is the last thing on your mind.
Sex therapy for a low sex drive offers the opportunity to explore the underlying causes of decreased desire. This involves understanding hopes and expectations, improving communication about your wants and needs, and figuring out how to bring passion back to the bedroom.
Inability to Orgasm
Studies suggest that around 20% of women have difficulty reaching orgasm, and another 40% experience them inconsistently. Whether you’ve never had an orgasm or struggle to climax regularly, I’m here to help you change that.
Together, we’ll remove the unnecessary pressure and approach your frustrations with kindness and understanding. By the end of our sessions, you’ll have practical exercises to practice in the comfort of your own home, helping you better understand what your body needs to experience pleasure and orgasm with ease.
Aging
You might be worried about how changes in your body could affect your sexual pleasure as you age. But here’s the good news—sexual desire and satisfaction don’t have to fade with age. In fact, many women find their sex lives improve as they get older.
If your sexual concerns are age-related, I’m here to help you rediscover your confidence and satisfaction. A little-known secret shared by many sex experts is that some of the most fulfilling sexual experiences often come after 50!
Painful Sex | Pelvic Pain
Pain during sex can deeply affect both your physical well-being and emotional health. Conditions like Vulvodynia, Vaginismus, and Sexual Aversion can make intimacy difficult and overwhelming. But you don’t have to face this alone. I’m here to listen, understand, and support you through these challenges. Together, we’ll work on replacing pain with comfort and pleasure, helping you rediscover enjoyable, fulfilling intimacy. Click here to learn more about the different types of pain during sex and their treatments.
Missing That Spark
The excitement of those early days in a relationship can sometimes shift into a comfortable routine, or life’s circumstances may lead to feelings of disconnect. If you’re feeling unsure about how to satisfy your partner or struggling with a decreased interest in sex, I’m here to guide you. Together, we’ll explore everything from enhancing your sexual skills to improving the way you connect and communicate with your partner. We’ll also dive into the importance of foreplay and the many forms intimacy can take, so you can reconnect and rediscover joy in your intimate life.
Most women don't feel understood when it comes to their sexuality. With expert guidance and practical exercises, you can have
sex that is worth having.
YOUR PROFESSIONAL FEMALE SEX THERAPIST
Why Choose Vielka?
Many women turn to their medical doctors for help with sexual concerns, only to feel dismissed or misunderstood. The reason is that most medical training focuses more on reproduction than it does on sexual pleasure and the experience of sex as a whole.
I have more than 20 years helping people with their sexuality.
My approach to sex therapy for women is holistic and personalized. I blend the latest research on female sexuality with somatic-based practices, understanding the uniqueness of what sexual health means to you while respecting your values and beliefs on how to take care of your body.
Your body isn’t broken—it’s simply communicating that your sexual needs aren’t being fully met. Together, we’ll tap into your sexual potential and redefine what pleasure and satisfaction mean for you, while creating a path to achieve it.
Hi. I’m Vielka. A Certified Sex Therapist who knows what you’re going through.
At the beginning, everything was great—including sex. It was fun, spontaneous, and there was a lot of it. But after a couple of years, something changed. I didn’t want to have sex anymore. I grew up in Costa Rica, a catholic country and I had no idea how to fix it.
I started doing it just for my partner, but honestly, it felt like I was doing him a favor. Saying “no” didn’t make him happy, and saying “yes” didn’t make me happy. Sex was no longer enjoyable, and our emotional intimacy began to suffer.
I felt terrible as a partner. I lost desire and didn’t know how to bring it back. It didn’t matter how many toys or lingerie I would buy. Nothing worked. I felt like giving up.
Then I learned that losing desire happens to a lot of couples. This made me feel better, but the problem was still there—and I had no idea how to fix it.
I reached a point where I thought, “I’m okay never having sex again.” Yes, it got that bad. Deep down, I craved the connection, excitement, and aliveness that sex brings, but I had no idea how to make that happen.
But I didn’t give up and I embarked on a journey that led me to become a Certified Sex Therapist through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT).
I discovered the tools I needed, and my intimacy became absolutely AMAZING! Now I know how to create mind-blowing orgasms and keep desire alive over time. I’m passionate about sharing what I’ve learned and helping others transform their sexuality through self-love and healing.
Go from "sex isn’t exciting anymore" to
"I can’t wait to be with you tonight!"
My Approach
HOLISTIC AND TRULY PERSONALIZED
As a professional female sex therapist, I know that your sexual challenges and frustrations are unique. That’s why my holistic approach focuses on understanding your specific experiences, desires, and obstacles. We’ll explore your body, your mind, and your heart. We’ll uncover how all of these sexual aspects are interconnected.
Session by session, we’ll focus on embracing self-love, allowing you to extend that love and connection to others
With me, you’re guaranteed a safe, non-judgmental space where you can be yourself and speak freely. As an expert with more than 20 years of experience in psychology and sexuality, I offer a compassionate and culturally-sensitive approach to helping you rediscover pleasure, confidence, and intimacy – on your terms.
Reclaim the spark, rewrite your story, and create a love life that lights you up.
Frequently Asked Questions
Any additional questions? We are here to answer...
Yes, it’s common for sexual desire to fluctuate over time, especially after major life changes like having children or being in a long-term relationship. Therapy can help you explore these changes and find ways to reignite passion in your relationship.
Yes, we’ll work on helping you better understand your body and learn what brings you pleasure. Therapy can provide techniques and tools to help you feel more connected and comfortable with your body, enhancing your ability to experience orgasm.
Many women experience changes in libido due to aging or hormonal shifts. We’ll work through the physical and emotional changes that come with aging and develop ways to help you reconnect with your sexual self.
Yes, sex therapy can help uncover the root cause of pain during sex, whether it’s physical or emotional. We’ll explore techniques, exercises, and treatments that can help you reduce discomfort and enjoy intimacy more.
Low libido is common, and sex therapy can help you understand why your sexual desire is low. Together, we’ll explore emotional, psychological, and physical factors and create strategies to help boost your interest in sex.