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Sex Therapy for Men in Austin, Texas

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When sex is great, men feel confident and powerful.

But when sexual challenges arise, talking about them isn’t always easy.
It can bring up anxiety, frustration, or even self-doubt. Whether it’s erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, or low libido, these struggles can make intimacy feel more like a source of stress than connection and joy.

And it’s not just about the physical side—questions around sexual orientation, compatibility with your partner, or exploring kinks and fetishes can also add layers of confusion.
These are real, valid concerns. But the good news?

They don’t have to get in the way of a satisfying sex life.

Asking for help can feel tough, but opening up to someone who understands is the first step toward finding your way through any struggle.

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How Sex Therapy for Men Can Help

You’re not alone in this. I’ve helped men for over 20 years work through their sexual challenges, rebuild confidence, and find deeper intimacy.

With my holistic approach to sex therapy, we’ll work together to:

✔ Overcome anxiety and performance pressure
✔ Reignite desire and connection with your partner
✔ Explore your sexuality in a safe, judgment-free space
✔ Build lasting confidence in and outside the bedroom

You’ll have a space where you can talk freely, without shame or pressure. My goal is to help you reconnect with pleasure, confidence, and intimacy—on your own terms. I understand that your sexual challenges and frustrations are unique. Session by session, we’ll work toward exploring your sexual self and finding the best ways to meet your needs and desires..

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LPC supervision Texas

A Certified Sex Therapist who knows what you’re going through.

More about me

Growing up in Costa Rica’s Catholic traditions, I was surrounded by strict expectations about how I should behave, especially regarding gender roles.

My curiosity went beyond just understanding myself—I wanted to understand the “opposite sex” as well. This led me to focus my dissertation on masculinity and jealousy, where I explored how the roles and messages we learn affect our relationships and the way we connect with others.

Because of this gap in knowledge, my early relationships—though they started with a lot of passion—soon lost their excitement. I experienced painful sex, a loss of desire, and even reached a point where I thought, “I’m okay never having sex again.” Yes, it got that bad. Deep down, I craved the connection, excitement, and aliveness that sex brings, but I had no idea how to make that happen.

Determined to change my life and experience fulfilling intimacy, I embarked on a journey that led me to become a Certified Sex Therapist through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT).

I also immersed myself in ancient practices like Tantra and Taoism, gaining a deep understanding of the connection between emotional and physical intimacy. This journey completely transformed not just my view of relationships but my entire life.

I went from feeling disconnected from my body to experiencing mind-blowing pleasure and orgasms. Now, my mission is clear: to create a movement of loving, kind sexual freedom and empowerment. I’m passionate about guiding others to embrace their sexuality, heal their past, and rediscover the pleasure and connection they deserve.

My Approach

Holistic and Truly Personalized

As a seasoned sex therapist for men, I understand that your sexual challenges and frustrations are unique. My holistic approach focuses on understanding your experiences, desires, and obstacles. Session by session, we’ll work toward exploring your sexual self and finding the best ways to meet your needs and desires.

With me, you’ll have a safe, nonjudgmental space where you can be yourself and speak freely. As an expert in psychology and sexuality, I provide a compassionate, culturally sensitive approach to help you rediscover pleasure, confidence, and intimacy on your own terms.

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IS SEX THERAPY FOR MEN RIGHT FOR YOU?

What My Sex Therapy for Men Can Help With?

Erectile Dysfunction

You want to connect with your partner, but the fear of losing an erection stops you from even initiating. The anxiety builds, and soon, sex feels like a test you might fail.

This pressure can make intimacy feel impossible—but it doesn’t have to be this way. With the right strategies, we can reduce anxiety and help you regain confidence, so sex becomes enjoyable again.

Our goal? To make intimacy a source of joy once more.

Premature Ejaculation

Maybe it’s happened before—you’re excited, but things end sooner than you’d like. It’s tough when you really want to satisfy your partner, but each time it doesn’t go as planned, it feels like another letdown. Frustration sets in, and over time, the pressure to “last longer” only makes things worse.

Sex therapy can help you break this cycle, so you can relax, enjoy intimacy, fully connect with your partner and feel more in control of your experience.

Low Libido

If you’re struggling with a low sex drive, you might feel frustrated, confused, or even guilty. Maybe you’re worried about disappointing your partner or wondering if something is wrong with you, which only adds to the pressure.

The truth is, libido is complex—stress, hormones, emotions, and relationship dynamics all play a role. But there’s hope—through sex therapy, we’ll uncover the root causes and create strategies to boost your libido and rebuild a satisfying connection with your partner.

Sexual Orientation, Fetishes, and More

Not everyone has a space where they feel safe discussing their sexuality. Whether you’re exploring your sexual identity, same-sex desires, BDSM, polyamory, or kinks, you deserve a place to process and understand what feels right for you.

In our sessions, you’ll have a supportive, non-judgmental environment where you can freely express your desires and concerns, knowing you’ll be met with understanding and respect.

Ready to Feel Confident in Your Sex Life Again?

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Sexual challenges don’t define you!

And with the right support, they don’t have to hold you back.

I’ve helped countless men regain confidence, overcome anxiety, and create a fulfilling intimate life—and I can help you too.

Let’s take that first step together. Book a session today.

Sexual challenges can feel isolating, but you don’t have to navigate them alone. My approach to sex therapy is rooted in empathy, expertise, and real strategies that help you feel at ease in your own body and relationships.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Any additional questions? We are here to answer…

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Erectile dysfunction can cause anxiety and frustration, and sex therapy addresses both the emotional and psychological aspects behind ED. Whether it’s anxiety, self-doubt, or performance pressure, we’ll work through it together to help you regain confidence and enjoy a satisfying sex life.

Low libido can have multiple causes, including stress, anxiety, hormone imbalances, or relationship issues. In therapy, we’ll dive into the root causes, exploring both emotional and physical factors, and work on ways to reignite your sexual desire.

Feeling nervous about initiating intimacy is more common than you think. We’ll work on boosting your confidence by addressing any insecurities, fears of rejection, or performance anxiety that might be holding you back, empowering you to feel more comfortable approaching your partner.

Performance anxiety can make sex feel like a stressful task instead of something enjoyable. We’ll use techniques like mindfulness and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) to help you stay present in the moment and reduce the pressure to “perform,” allowing you to reconnect with your partner without fear.

Opening up about kinks or fetishes can feel intimidating, but in therapy, we’ll work on effective communication strategies that allow you to express your desires with your partner in a respectful, open way. We’ll also explore how to create an environment of trust and mutual consent.

Absolutely. Whether you’re exploring your sexual orientation or struggling with how to navigate those feelings in a relationship, therapy can help you gain clarity, reduce anxiety, and find acceptance, creating a safe space for self-discovery and growth.

Absolutely. Your privacy is my top priority, and I adhere to strict ethical guidelines to ensure that everything discussed in our sessions stays confidential. The only exceptions to confidentiality are rare and legally mandated, such as:

  • Reports of abuse or neglect involving children, elders, or vulnerable adults.
  • Court orders requiring the release of records, usually related to a person’s mental health in a legal case.
  • Safety concerns, including when a client expresses thoughts of self-harm, suicide, or intent to harm others.

In all other cases, what we discuss stays between us, so you can feel safe opening up during therapy.

3 steps to get started

Step 1

Schedule a free consult

Get your questions answered and learned how you will be helped in this 15 min consultation.

Step 2

Begin sessions

Scheduled a full 50 min session where you will learn tools and have exercises to practice at home to grow quick and steady.

Step 3

Individualized plan

We will create a unique strategy that works for your specific needs and addresses the challenges you need support with. 

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