For many men, sex is an important way to feel connected and close to their partner. But when sexual challenges arise, it can feel tough to talk about and may lead to feelings of anxiety, frustration, or even self-doubt. Whether it’s erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, or low libido, these issues can make intimacy feel more like a struggle than a source of joy.
It’s not just about the physical side—questions around sexual orientation, compatibility with your partner, or exploring kinks and fetishes can also add to the confusion. These are all real, valid concerns, but the good news is they don’t have to get in the way of having a satisfying sex life. Together, we can work through these challenges and help you feel more confident and connected in your intimate relationships.
For many men, sex is an important way to feel connected and close to their partner. However, seeking expert help is crucial for the change you’re looking for. While not always easy, talking openly about these issues is the first step toward overcoming them.
How Sex Therapy for Men Can Help
You may feel like you’re the only one facing these challenges, but I assure you, you’re not. I’ve helped numerous men for more than 20 years to overcome their sexual struggles, and I’m here to do the same for you. Using my holistic approach to male sex therapy, we’ll work together to rebuild your confidence, reduce anxiety, and create the intimacy you’ve been missing, making sex feel fulfilling and enjoyable.
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A Certified Sex Therapist who knows what you’re going through.
Growing up in Costa Rica’s Catholic traditions, I was surrounded by strict expectations about how I should behave, especially regarding gender roles.
My curiosity went beyond just understanding myself—I wanted to understand the “opposite sex” as well. This led me to focus my dissertation on masculinity and jealousy, where I explored how the roles and messages we learn affect our relationships and the way we connect with others.
Because of this gap in knowledge, my early relationships—though they started with a lot of passion—soon lost their excitement. I experienced painful sex, a loss of desire, and even reached a point where I thought, “I’m okay never having sex again.” Yes, it got that bad. Deep down, I craved the connection, excitement, and aliveness that sex brings, but I had no idea how to make that happen.
Determined to change my life and experience fulfilling intimacy, I embarked on a journey that led me to become a Certified Sex Therapist through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT).
I also immersed myself in ancient practices like Tantra and Taoism, gaining a deep understanding of the connection between emotional and physical intimacy. This journey completely transformed not just my view of relationships but my entire life.
I went from feeling disconnected from my body to experiencing mind-blowing pleasure and orgasms. Now, my mission is clear: to create a movement of loving, kind sexual freedom and empowerment. I’m passionate about guiding others to embrace their sexuality, heal their past, and rediscover the pleasure and connection they deserve.
My Approach
Holistic and Truly Personalized
As a seasoned sex therapist for men, I understand that your sexual challenges and frustrations are unique. My holistic approach focuses on understanding your experiences, desires, and obstacles. Session by session, we’ll work toward exploring your sexual self and finding the best ways to meet your needs and desires.
With me, you’ll have a safe, nonjudgmental space where you can be yourself and speak freely. As an expert in psychology and sexuality, I provide a compassionate, culturally sensitive approach to help you rediscover pleasure, confidence, and intimacy on your own terms.
IS SEX THERAPY FOR WOMEN RIGHT FOR YOU?
What My Sex Therapy for Men Can Help With?
Erectile Dysfunction
You want to connect with your partner, but the fear of losing an erection gets in the way of even initiating. When you can’t maintain an erection, especially in those important moments of intimacy, it can trigger waves of anxiety and embarrassment. You may feel like you’re falling short, worried, and letting down the person you care about most. It’s a heavy burden to carry, and it’s easy to feel alone, even when you only want to be close. But there’s hope—with my specialized approach as a sex therapist, we can work through these challenges together. I’m here to help you find the confidence and connection you’re seeking so intimacy becomes a source of joy again.
Premature Ejaculation
Maybe you’ve been there—feeling embarrassed and frustrated when things happen too quickly in the bedroom. It’s tough when you really want to satisfy your partner, but each time it doesn’t go as planned, it feels like another letdown. Over time, it can start to feel like you’re stuck in a cycle of anxiety, focusing so much on lasting longer that it only makes things worse. Sex therapy can help you relax, enjoy the moment, and feel confident knowing you can fully connect with your partner without fear or pressure.
Premature Ejaculation
Maybe you’ve been there—feeling embarrassed and frustrated when things happen too quickly in the bedroom. It’s tough when you really want to satisfy your partner, but each time it doesn’t go as planned, it feels like another letdown. Over time, it can start to feel like you’re stuck in a cycle of anxiety, focusing so much on lasting longer that it only makes things worse. Sex therapy can help you relax, enjoy the moment, and feel confident knowing you can fully connect with your partner without fear or pressure.
Low Libido
Worried about not feeling in the mood? Maybe you’re feeling a mix of frustration, confusion, or even guilt because you’re unable to match your partner’s desire for intimacy. You might worry that you’re letting them down or feel like something is wrong with you, which only adds to the pressure. But there’s hope—through sex therapy, we’ll uncover the root causes and create strategies to boost your libido and rebuild a satisfying connection with your partner.
Sexual Orientation, Fetishes, and More
Talking openly about sensitive sexual topics can be challenging, and finding a safe space to do so isn’t always easy. Whether you’re exploring your sexual identity, kinks, BDSM, same-sex desires, or polyamory, you deserve a place where you can sort it all out. In our sessions, you’ll have a supportive, non-judgmental environment where you can freely express your desires and concerns, knowing you’ll be met with understanding and respect.
Sexual Orientation, Fetishes, and More
Talking openly about sensitive sexual topics can be challenging, and finding a safe space to do so isn’t always easy. Whether you’re exploring your sexual identity, kinks, BDSM, same-sex desires, or polyamory, you deserve a place where you can sort it all out. In our sessions, you’ll have a supportive, non-judgmental environment where you can freely express your desires and concerns, knowing you’ll be met with understanding and respect.
READY TO OVERCOME YOUR STRUGGLES AND TRULY ENJOY YOUR SEX LIFE?
Book a Session with Me Today
Sexual challenges don’t define you, and through male sex therapy, they can be overcome. Together, we’ll work through them, rebuild your confidence, and strengthen your connection with yourself and your partner.
I’ve helped countless men just like you, and I know how tough it can be to take that first step. But remember, you deserve a fulfilling intimate life. Let’s start working on it today!
Frequently Asked Questions
Any additional questions? We are here to answer…
Erectile dysfunction can cause anxiety and frustration, and sex therapy addresses both the emotional and psychological aspects behind ED. Whether it’s anxiety, self-doubt, or performance pressure, we’ll work through it together to help you regain confidence and enjoy a satisfying sex life.
Low libido can have multiple causes, including stress, anxiety, hormone imbalances, or relationship issues. In therapy, we’ll dive into the root causes, exploring both emotional and physical factors, and work on ways to reignite your sexual desire.
Feeling nervous about initiating intimacy is more common than you think. We’ll work on boosting your confidence by addressing any insecurities, fears of rejection, or performance anxiety that might be holding you back, empowering you to feel more comfortable approaching your partner.
Performance anxiety can make sex feel like a stressful task instead of something enjoyable. We’ll use techniques like mindfulness and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) to help you stay present in the moment and reduce the pressure to “perform,” allowing you to reconnect with your partner without fear.
Opening up about kinks or fetishes can feel intimidating, but in therapy, we’ll work on effective communication strategies that allow you to express your desires with your partner in a respectful, open way. We’ll also explore how to create an environment of trust and mutual consent.
Absolutely. Whether you’re exploring your sexual orientation or struggling with how to navigate those feelings in a relationship, therapy can help you gain clarity, reduce anxiety, and find acceptance, creating a safe space for self-discovery and growth.
Absolutely. Your privacy is my top priority, and I adhere to strict ethical guidelines to ensure that everything discussed in our sessions stays confidential. The only exceptions to confidentiality are rare and legally mandated, such as:
- Reports of abuse or neglect involving children, elders, or vulnerable adults.
- Court orders requiring the release of records, usually related to a person’s mental health in a legal case.
- Safety concerns, including when a client expresses thoughts of self-harm, suicide, or intent to harm others.
In all other cases, what we discuss stays between us, so you can feel safe opening up during therapy.