Differences in Sex Drive and Intimacy Issues Therapist in Texas
Sex therapy for couples. Office in Austin. Online in Dallas, San Antonio, Houston, and Across Texas
When the idea of sex makes your body cringe, No bueno!
Remember When Sex Was Exciting and Fun?
You and your partner get along well. Take care of the house, have fun together, you make a good team but the truth is… you’d rather do dishes than “do your partner”!
You really want to make it better but keep failing and feel like there is no point to try anymore. It just seems that nothing works and you are starting to worry about living like this for the rest of your life. In the back of your head you think “Is my partner happy with me?” Ugh, guilt!
At the beginning of your relationship, intimacy was effortless, spontaneous, and full of joy.
Over time, though, life’s demands — work, stress, and daily routines — have made sex feel like a chore. Now, intimacy feels like just another task. It’s easier to tune out and than trying and feeling terrible because it didn’t work.
The worst part is that sex is not enjoyable anymore. It makes you feel tense and you don’t look forward to it. Passion is absolutely gone and instead, you feel totally numb and rather relax and rest after a long day. Sex feels like so much work, No thank you!
Ready to Schedule Your Session?
Or, would you rather start with a free 15-minute phone consult.
Wish things were like they used to be — or even better?
What if sex could feel exciting and something you look forward to. Are you ready to:
Crave Intimacy
Instead of feeling pressure.
Enjoy Each Thrust
Rather than rusing through it
Feel Closer
Instead of distant
Make sex magical
And not stressfull
Hi. I’m Vielka. A Certified Sex Therapist who knows what you’re going through.
At the beginning, everything was great—including sex. It was fun, spontaneous, and there was a lot of it. But after a couple of years, something changed. I didn’t want to have sex anymore. I grew up in Costa Rica, a catholic country and I had no idea how to fix it.
I started doing it just for my partner, but honestly, it felt like I was doing him a favor. Saying “no” didn’t make him happy, and saying “yes” didn’t make me happy. Sex was no longer enjoyable, and our emotional intimacy began to suffer.
I felt terrible as a partner. I lost desire and didn’t know how to bring it back. It didn’t matter how many toys or lingerie I would buy. Nothing worked. I felt like giving up.
Then I learned that losing desire happens to a lot of couples. This made me feel better, but the problem was still there—and I had no idea how to fix it.
I reached a point where I thought, “I’m okay never having sex again.” Yes, it got that bad. Deep down, I craved the connection, excitement, and aliveness that sex brings, but I had no idea how to make that happen.
But I didn’t give up and I embarked on a journey that led me to become a Certified Sex Therapist through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT).
I discovered the tools I needed, and my intimacy became absolutely AMAZING! Now I know how to create mind-blowing orgasms and keep desire alive over time. I’m passionate about sharing what I’ve learned and helping others transform their sexuality through self-love and healing.
READY TO TRULY ENJOY YOUR SEX LIFE?
Starting therapy can feel intimidating, but just being on this page means you’ve already taken the first step. Let’s work together to create the change you need for a fulfilling, joyful, intimate life.
Ignite the fire AND fall in love over and over again!
Here’s How We’ll Do It:
- Releasing Guilt: You will feel understood with compassion instead of feeling guilty.
- Reigniting Desire: I will guide you with easy exercises that makes intimacy feel so good!
- Balancing Intimacy with Life’s Demands: We will learn how to make connecting time fun and recharging.
- Creating Connection Without Pressure: No more cringing! Instead you will learn how to connect and relax fully in to the moment. Time to melt into each other!