Differences in Sex Drive and Intimacy Issues Therapist in Texas

Sex therapy for couples. Office in Austin. Online in Dallas, San Antonio, Houston, and Across Texas

When the idea of sex makes your body cringe, No bueno!

Remember When Sex Was Exciting and Fun?

Intimacy issues are more common than you think.

You and your partner get along well. Take care of the house, have fun together, you make a good team but the truth isā€¦ youā€™d rather do dishes than ā€œdo your partnerā€!

You really want to make it better but keep failing and feel like there is no point to try anymore. It just seems that nothing works and your sex drive is just gone. In the back of your head you think ā€œIs my partner happy with me?ā€ Ugh, guilt!

At the beginning of your relationship, intimacy was
effortless, spontaneous, and full of joy.

Why did I lose desire for my partner?

Over time, though, lifeā€™s demands ā€” work, stress, and daily routines ā€” have made sex feel like a chore. Now, intimacy feels like just another task. It’s easier to tune out and than trying and feeling terrible because it didnā€™t work.Ā 

The worst part is that sex is not enjoyable anymore. It makes you feel tense and you donā€™t look forward to it. Passion is absolutely gone and instead, you feel totally numb and rather relax and rest after a long day. Sex feels like so much work, No thank you!

Ready to Schedule Your Session?

Or, would you rather start with a free 15-minute phone consult.

Suffering from intimacy issues?

What if sex could feel exciting and something you look forward to. Sex therapy can help you…

Crave Intimacy

Instead of feeling pressure.

Enjoy Each Thrust

Rather than rusing through it

Feel Closer

Instead of distant

Make sex magical

And not stressfull

LPC supervision Texas

Hi. Iā€™m Vielka. A Certified Sex Therapist who knows what youā€™re going through.

At the beginning, everything was greatā€”including sex. It was fun, spontaneous, and there was a lot of it. But after a couple of years, something changed. I didnā€™t want to have sex anymore. I grew up in Costa Rica, a catholic country and I had no idea how to fix it.

I started doing it just for my partner, but honestly, it felt like I was doing him a favor. Saying ā€œnoā€ didnā€™t make him happy, and saying ā€œyesā€ didnā€™t make me happy. Sex was no longer enjoyable, and our emotional intimacy began to suffer.

I felt terrible as a partner. I lost desire and didnā€™t know how to bring it back. It didnā€™t matter how many toys or lingerie I would buy. Nothing worked. I felt like giving up.

Then I learned that losing desire happens to a lot of couples. This made me feel better, but the problem was still thereā€”and I had no idea how to fix it.

I reached a point where I thought, ā€œIā€™m okay never having sex again.ā€ Yes, it got that bad. Deep down, I craved the connection, excitement, and aliveness that sex brings, but I had no idea how to make that happen.

But I didnā€™t give up and I embarked on a journey that led me to become a Certified Sex Therapist through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT).

I discovered the tools I needed, and my intimacy became absolutely AMAZING! Now I know how to create mind-blowing orgasms and keep desire alive over time. Iā€™m passionate about sharing what Iā€™ve learned and helping others transform their sexuality through self-love and healing.

READY TO TRULY ENJOY SEX?

Starting sex therapy can feel intimidating, but just being on this page means youā€™ve already taken the first step. Letā€™s work together to create the change you need to improve communication and increase libido.

Ignite the fire AND fall in love over and over again is easy with a Couples Sex Therapist!

Hereā€™s How Weā€™ll Overcome Sexual Challenges:

3 steps to get started

Step 1

Schedule a free consult

Get your questions answered and learned how you will be helped in this 15 min consultation.

Step 2

Begin sessions

Scheduled a full 50 min session where you will learn tools and have exercises to practice at home to grow quick and steady.

Step 3

Individualized plan

We will create a unique strategy that works for your specific needs and addresses the challenges you need support with.Ā 

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