Vielka Kano – a sex expert you can rely on.
Greetings! Call me Vielka. I’m a seasoned Psychologist and Licensed Professional Counselor, dedicating over two decades to unraveling the intricate realms of psychology and sexuality. With a profound understanding of what makes relationships thrive, I am committed to assisting couples in discovering joy and intimacy through a nuanced understanding of their personal lives.
My approach is rooted in warmth and non-judgment. I recognize that, while sex is a profound means of connection, it is not uncommon for individuals to grapple with feelings of shame and guilt and feel lost after having tried it all. It is my goal to cultivate an environment where such conversations are approached with comfort and openness.
Holding the title of an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, I adhere rigorously to the highest professional standards, ensuring that my guidance is both ethical and efficacious. I hold deep respect for the diverse beliefs and backgrounds of my clients, acknowledging the substantial influence that cultural and religious values have on one’s perceptions and experiences of sexuality.
My professional achievements revolve around reigniting passion, fostering profound connections, and curating enriching experiences for both individuals and couples. My distinctive approach integrates scientific insights with traditional practices such as Tantra and Taoism, offering a comprehensive and impactful strategy for enhancing intimate relationships.
As a recognized authority in the field, I’ve garnered accolades and acknowledgments, including features in Women’s Health magazine and appearances on Telemundo and the widely-watched TV show “90 Day Fiancé.”
My mission is to help you navigate the twists and turns of your sexual journey in the most approachable and personal way possible.
Frequently Asked Questions
My fees are $250 per 50 min. session.
I currently don’t accept insurance directly and am considered an out-of-network provider. However, many of my clients receive reimbursement between 40% and 80% by submitting a superbill to their insurance company, which I can provide.
Since coverage varies by provider, you can easily check your reimbursement rates using Nirvana’s Benefit Calculator here: Nirvana Calculator. Feel free to reach out if you have any questions!
Yes, my office is located at 901 West Ave, Austin, 78701.
I also offer online sessions.
You can typically get an appointment within a week and, sometimes, within the next 48 hours. Feel free to send me an email if you don’t find a time that works for you. I am happy to offer alternatives if available.
You can easily schedule an appointment through my website. Once it’s confirmed, I’ll send you a welcome email with a link to fill out the initial paperwork. I’ll also provide the link for video sessions or directions to the office.
In the beginning, I recommend weekly sessions. As you make progress, we can space the sessions out to every other week.
During your first sex therapy session, the therapist will ask a variety of questions to understand your sexual history, mental health, family relationships, and any physical or medical concerns. If you’re in a relationship, they’ll also ask about your relationship dynamics, including how you show affection outside of sex. This helps the therapist develop a holistic understanding of your situation and create a personalized treatment plan.
Sex therapy sessions can help you build skills to enhance pleasure and arousal, manage performance anxiety, and improve communication with your partner. You’ll also receive education on anatomy, sexual functioning, and how to better understand the mind-body connection. The goal is to work toward improving your relationship with intimacy in a non-judgmental, supportive environment.
Not necessarily. While sex therapy addresses intimacy challenges, it also explores non-sexual stressors that may be impacting your relationship or emotional well-being. Like other forms of talk therapy, sex therapy can help you address underlying mental health concerns or relationship dynamics that might be interfering with your overall satisfaction. It’s important to note that there is no nudity or genital touch involved in sex therapy—sessions are strictly conversational and focus on emotional, psychological, and relational aspects of intimacy.
License:
- Licensed Proffesional Counselor- # 72775
- LPC-Supervisor in Texas
- Certified Sex Therapsit by the American Associatin of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists AASECT
Education:
- Sex therapy certification, Sexual Health Alliance program
- Masters of Arts in Counseling the University of Texas. San Antonio, Texas
- Licensed in Psychology University of Costa Rica, 2008
- Thesis: “A case study of jealousy in men who have committed domestic violence.” Recommended for publication by the licensing board.
- Bachelor of Arts in Psychology University of Costa Rica, 2006
Training:
- Keeping the spark alive, Sexual Health Allicance
- More than two: Consensual non monogamy research and education, Sexual Health Alliance
- Treating Pelvic Pain, Vulva edition, , Sexual Health Alliance
- Tantra meets BDSM. Om Rupani and Laurie Handlers
- Tantra Certificaition- Eugene Gendling and Monique Darling
- Kinky Sexceptional Weekend with Midori, Sexual Health Alliance
- Out of Control Sexual Behavior with Michael Vigorito, Sexual Health Alliance
- The science behind relationships, Sexual Health Alliance
- Coming toguether, blending couples and sex therapy, Sexual Health Alliance
- The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life Sexual Fantasies with Justin LehMiller, Sexual Health Alliance
- Yoga Instructor – 200 hours
Men might be interested in understanding the timeframe for progress. Knowing how long therapy typically takes and what kinds of improvements they might expect can help set realistic expectations.
Absolutely. Your privacy is my top priority, and I adhere to strict ethical guidelines to ensure that everything discussed in our sessions stays confidential. The only exceptions to confidentiality are rare and legally mandated, such as:
Reports of abuse or neglect involving children, elders, or vulnerable adults.
Court orders requiring the release of records, usually related to a person’s mental health in a legal case.
Safety concerns, including when a client expresses thoughts of self-harm, suicide, or intent to harm others.
In all other cases, what we discuss stays between us, so you can feel safe opening up during therapy.
Yes, I offer online sessions, and they can be just as effective as in-person therapy. Virtual therapy provides the same level of confidentiality, support, and guidance as face-to-face sessions, but with the added convenience of attending from the comfort of your own space. Many clients find online sessions particularly helpful if they have busy schedules, live in remote areas, or simply feel more comfortable at home.