Differences in Sex Drive and Intimacy Issues Therapist in Texas
When the idea of sex makes your body cringe, No bueno!
Remember When Sex Was Exciting and Fun?
You and your partner get along well. Take care of the house, have fun together, you make a good team but the truth is… you’d rather do dishes than “do your partner”!
You really want to make it better but keep failing and feel like there is no point to try anymore. It just seems that nothing works and you are starting to worry about living like this for the rest of your life. In the back of your head you think “Is my partner happy with me?” Ugh, guilt!
At the beginning of your relationship, intimacy was effortless, spontaneous, and full of joy.
Over time, though, life’s demands — work, stress, and daily routines — have made sex feel like a chore. Now, intimacy feels like just another task. It’s easier to tune out and than trying and feeling terrible because it didn’t work.
The worst part is that sex is not enjoyable anymore. It makes you feel tense and you don’t look forward to it. Passion is absolutely gone and instead, you feel totally numb and rather relax and rest after a long day. Sex feels like so much work, No thank you!
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A Certified Sex Therapist who knows what you’re going through.
Growing up in Costa Rica’s Catholic traditions, I was surrounded by strict expectations about how I should behave, especially regarding gender roles.
My curiosity went beyond just understanding myself—I wanted to understand the “opposite sex” as well. This led me to focus my dissertation on masculinity and jealousy, where I explored how the roles and messages we learn affect our relationships and the way we connect with others.
Because of this gap in knowledge, my early relationships—though they started with a lot of passion—soon lost their excitement. I experienced painful sex, a loss of desire, and even reached a point where I thought, “I’m okay never having sex again.” Yes, it got that bad. Deep down, I craved the connection, excitement, and aliveness that sex brings, but I had no idea how to make that happen.
Determined to change my life and experience fulfilling intimacy, I embarked on a journey that led me to become a Certified Sex Therapist through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT).
I also immersed myself in ancient practices like Tantra and Taoism, gaining a deep understanding of the connection between emotional and physical intimacy. This journey completely transformed not just my view of relationships but my entire life.
I went from feeling disconnected from my body to experiencing mind-blowing pleasure and orgasms. Now, my mission is clear: to create a movement of loving, kind sexual freedom and empowerment. I’m passionate about guiding others to embrace their sexuality, heal their past, and rediscover the pleasure and connection they deserve.
Wish things were like they used to be — or even better?
What if sex could feel exciting and something you look forward to. Are you ready to:
Crave Intimacy
Instead of feeling pressure.
Enjoy Each Thrust
Rather than rusing through it
Feel Closer
Instead of distant
Make sex magical
And not stressfull
READY TO OVERCOME YOUR STRUGGLES AND TRULY ENJOY YOUR SEX LIFE?
Book a Session with Me Today
Sexual challenges don’t define you, and through male sex therapy, they can be overcome. Together, we’ll work through them, rebuild your confidence, and strengthen your connection with yourself and your partner.
I’ve helped countless men just like you, and I know how tough it can be to take that first step. But remember, you deserve a fulfilling intimate life. Let’s start working on it today!
Ignite the fire AND fall in love over and over again!
Here’s How We’ll Do It:
- Releasing Guilt: You will feel understood with compassion instead of feeling guilty.
- Reigniting Desire: I will guide you with easy exercises that makes intimacy feel so good!
- Balancing Intimacy with Life’s Demands: We will learn how to make connecting time fun and recharging.
- Creating Connection Without Pressure: No more cringing! Instead you will learn how to connect and relax fully in to the moment. Time to melt into each other!